You might be inclined to think that an end of life doula serves primarily those with a life-shortening or life-limiting illness.
But here’s the thing.
I can be called upon to support someone aged 5 or someone who is 95.
Those who are elderly don’t need the support of a doula LESS.
Don’t be fooled into believing that they are prepared and ready to die.
That their needs are any less.
In fact, sometimes they need that extra support all the more.
To advocate for them, ensure all their documents are in order, to provide dignity, companionship and connection, to have those difficult conversations with them that relatives and friends find so difficult.
But most of all to tend to the soul, the love, the regrets, the frustrations of life and of getting old.
Besides, there is so much living to do in those final days, weeks, months and years.
Please don’t assume that your elder relative doesn’t have any end of life wishes just because they are old, forgetful, frail or stuck in a hospital bed.
Oh, my dear, this is all the more reason to honour their humanness and spirit.
This doula is here for you all. 
Nancy xx
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